Group of 4 Looking 4 long term In depth game

Hi! We are a group of four who have been playing together with varying levels of experience from fairly new to 5e to me who is very experienced. We recently had the game we were in come to an abrupt end unfortunately so we're on the search for a new one! We are all 21+ and we are all LGBTQ+ friendly with 3 men and 1 woman. We are looking to play anytime after 5pm MST on Tuesdays specifically. What were looking for in a game! We are looking for a roleplay heavy game with about a 60/40 or 70/30 split between roleplay and combat where our characters actions and backstories affect the world around us. We are also interested in a high fantasy setting with a wide variety of races, classes, and fun magical elements. We are particularly interested in a pirate campaign as well but it isn't required. We would also like a homebrewed world heavily and our party would prefer to use DND beyond for ease of making characters but it isn't necessary. We have experience with all sorts of VTT's and have no real preferences for any of them but we would like to use one for combat as theater of the mind is really hard to to for combat.